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Hey. All of you could just ask me anything you guys feel like asking kay ? be it love problems, random stuff, anything :D even your secrets that you wanna let out. dont worry you’ll be kept as annonymous :D

12) heys , i’m an advisory myself but yeah , no harm asking another advisory for advice eventhough i know how to lead my way through it . i just wanna see the different opinion others could point it out and share with me. so basically, what does it mean when a guy stopped contacting other girls just to contact you and tell you everything’s gonna be okay and that he love you , calls you ‘baby’ and said that you’re the one who changed his life into a better one but you both cant get into relationship right now because he’s having N level next year . hence , you’re willing to wait. do you think there’ll be a chance for us to be together in the future ? i’m still not sure about it . i do love him , alot . how do i tell him that i want him to be with me , but in the ‘indirect’ way ? we’ve known each other for 5 months .

This is difficult but i will try alright :)

In a whole, its all about trust and patience. If you are patient enough to wait for him, then wait. If you must know, there’s a limitation to waiting. Dont wait too long. Yes, i know. N levels is like in 10months. Trust him to wait for him that long.

If in between theres a nerve-wrecking, i suppose that will be your limit of waiting bcos you cant wait forever. Dont force yourself to wait, do what you can. If you are satisfied, then it wont matter more than anything in the world.

Indirectly telling him by showing him your love, keeping him warm and support his every moves. To show him that he mean more than he thinks he’s worth waiting for.

Goodluck, Babe.
Wishing you the best of luck :)

11)I just broke up with my girlf. But I still keep thinking about her. And I’m missing her a lot. And I’m very sure that me and her will never be together again but deep inside me, i still love her. What should I do? Everything I do reminds me of her :S

The only way out is to move on.
If everything you do reminds you of her, then dont do anything at all :B
Everything happens for a reason. Well at least we know, that not all guys are jerks.

Move on, find another. You’ll get better in time :)

10) There’s this girl in my school that I have a crush on two years ago . she belongs to the same CCA as me . We have lots of chances to interact with each other . we often text each other too . there’s this point of time that I actually want to ask her but I am scared that after I asked her , she would treat me like a stranger and we could never had that kind of sweet conversations anymore . so if I were to ask her , how should I ? ( ps. this is the first time having a crush :O )

Sorry dude for the delay. Is it not too late to answer ? okay, if it is, im sorry. If its not, then why not, you try going out with her? like, out of school. Ask her out on a date and slowly get to know each other more :) then if you actually think you know her well enough, then consider yourself a man and tell her how you really feel :)

Sorry for the disapearance.

Let me explain. During the Holidays, ive been spending too much time outside till i forgot about formspring. I apologize. So im back now :)

9) i am still in love with my ex! he seemed to be a different person now,from the one i knew.i am going insane trying to get over him.suggestions?

Hello. I know its hard but the more you think about it the more hurt you’ll get, really. A few suggestions i would consider you to do :)

  1. Get yourself busy,
  2. Find yourself a new guy,
  3. Dont get into anymore serious shitezxz

: @3) go on dating life. you dont have to love the guy just to date the guys. get to know them more and think which is the right one for you. or not think at all. well, it helps :)

8)Hey, people said im like so obsessed with my girlfriend. is it a bad thing or good? And if it is a bad thing, should i stop and how do i stop? :S

Hello. Obsession? Haha, yes. I’ve been through that. Its both good and bad actually. Whats bad about this is your girlfriend might think you’re too clingy and it would kind turn her off if she finds you being clingy and eventually her feelings for you will start to fade. The worse thing about that is, you’ll start to see a change in her communications and you will become uncomfortable and paranoid about it. The good thing is it shows that you really love your girlfriend and not wanting to leave her with anybody else.

You should stop actually as she might not have time for her friends, and your friends might think ill of you. etc, you put your girlfriend first into everything. You might lose your friends in the end actually.

If you are meeting her everyday and literally EVERYDAY, then try to cut down on the meet ups and spend your non-meetup days with your friends :)  Trust me.

7)i am a guy looking for help hahas. my heart seems to be in deep sorrow but everyone out there expect me to smile and laugh though i try to tell them it hurts. I have no friends cos i have always been hurt a lot and betrayed so it is painful for me to trust. And my family is worst cos my divorced family.My mom is remarried and my step dad and his son is giving me a hard time lol.and my bio dad is out of the question. Sometimes i just wished time would stop for me. What should i do and yes i hate going to councillors!

Hello dude. Haha, its okay. This formspring is for both guys&girls :)

I understand you’re terribly hurt inside and hoping for everything to go like how you want it to. In life, you dont always get what you want. That, you must understand. Those friends of yours is not what you call friends AT ALL. Ditch them &find some better friends out there and learn to trust them slowly because no one likes living alone :) Why not you give yourself a day off and have some alone time. Go somewhere you think you can have your mind at ease or maybe cry everything out. It’ll make you feel better.

About your family. Why not you try talking things out with your stepdad and brother? Spend some time with them. Have a little bonding. At least that might lessen your troubles. You can also try to find something you like to do a lot for yourself and think about your ambition. If you set your mind to it, you can pursue it (Y)

Remember, the site will always be open if you need help :)

6)i got a friend who keep backstabbing me i need help should i continue to befriend her or ignore her? Help please!

Hello love. I would choose neither of it. If you know that your friend is backstabbing you, why are you beating around the bush for? Confront her. If you continue to befriend her, things might get even worse as she might have a lot more shit to talk about you. If you ignore her, she will still continue backstabbing you cos she’s still kept in the dark about you knowing the whole thing. So, confront her. That’s the only way out :)

5)Im not really in love with this guy. but we already stead for like 9 month. yet, no feelings for him. instead, i miss my ex-boyf. and its really hard to forget him.

Hey darling. 9 months huh? You are thinking of telling your current guy that you’re not serious and all right? I know its not easy to break the news but hey, before any serious shit happens, its best you be honest with him. The least, he’ll understand. You’re already breaking his heart by being with him with no feelings. So either way, you have to let him know. &about your exboyfriend. Why not you tell him you miss him? At least, get it out of your chest. Its not good to bottle things up cos he cant figure you out. I also know its not easy to forget. Go out there and find someone better :)  If you think you cant, obviously you wont be able to find. Believe in yourself, go for it (Y) trust me, you’ll move on eventually. Time heals all wounds.